Fatema had no problem thinking of a name for her daughter; her name is Bonna, which means flood. Bonna was born on the night that Cyclone SIDR ravaged Bangla
desh.
Fatema recalled the night of the storm “I delivered my child, the wind was blowing and the water was rising fast.” Her eldest son started screaming and pulling his mother, begging her to leave as the water rushed through the windows. “We tried to get everything together [to leave], but the water was already at my hip.”
Her husband smashed the door just to find a way out against the pressure of the storm, but as soon as they left the house, their son was swept away by the immense force of the water. At this moment, her husband put his new daughter’s life above everything else. “My husband gave our baby to a neighbor,” Fatema explained, “and he said, ‘we’re not going to live, please try to save my daughter.’”
“We thought we were going to die.”
Fatema’s neighbor managed to pass Bonna on to another family, who found a way to get her to a shelter. Their son was fortunately picked up by a different family, given new clothes, and cared for during the night. As for Fatema and her husband, they managed to find their way to a local commissioner’s house, where they waited until dawn. After the storm calmed, they made their way to a shelter, where they were reunited with the rest of their family.
When Fatema and her family returned home, “there was nothing; no place to sit, no place to cook. All the houses were destroyed.” She lost her family photos, her clothing, furniture, four goats and 10 chickens.
Within a few days, “BRAC people came to us and everyone in our village to see what we’d lost and what we needed.” BRAC provided food and other essentials, as Fatema recalled, “They gave us rice and other food. If they hadn’t, we might have died from hunger.”
BRAC also worked with other NGOs to rebuild her house and gave her two goats, one of which was pregnant. “I’m very happy to receive these goats,” she said. “We will raise them, and when they’re older, we will sell them to the market and earn some money.”
Fatema and her family have received help since the tragedy of SIDR but life is still not easy or predictable. Her husband continued his pre-SIDR trade of selling fish in the market, but currently few people are willing to spend much money on fish. “I want to educate my children, but it’s not possible right now,” Fatema explained. In the face of hardship, she continues to be positive as she says with a broad smile, “[BRAC is] going to give us chickens soon.” She retains her captivating smile and sincere conviction that things will improve soon thanks to her tenacity and a little help from BRAC.